Integrative Counsellor serving the Cornwall region. Online sessions and face-to-face Therapy.
Counselling and Therapy in Falmouth, Penryn, Cornwall

Therapy services in Cornwall
Hi, I am Monika, and welcome to The Lighthouse Counselling. I offer compassionate, trauma-informed, relational counselling in Falmouth, Cornwall, and online.
I work with adults, both individually and as couples, providing a space to explore personal challenges, relationships and emotional wellbeing.
My work is specifically centred on adult clients, and I do not work with children or young people.
My approach is grounded in empathy; I work collaboratively to explore trauma and difficult life challenges. I am ADHD-informed, drawing on lived experience and professional training. Together, we focus on what actually helps you, celebrating your strengths while gently navigating the challenges.
Whether you are seeking Individual Counselling or Relationship Counselling, I aim to help you build awareness and assertiveness. I offer ADHD-informed counselling to help clients embrace their unique potential. I also provide Clinical Supervision for qualified and trainee counsellors. I am committed to working with Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity.
A little bit about me and my practice
Over the past decade of experience, I have worked with individuals and couples from diverse backgrounds. My work is grounded in a collaborative approach; I explore how past experiences, particularly unmet childhood needs, can affect your present life. My dedication is informed by personal experience of trauma and Narcissistic abuse, bringing empathy to the therapeutic space and helping clients to be seen and understood. Counselling is a person-centred process; it is your autonomy that is embraced and validated.
I am Trauma and Attachment-Informed, offering support for relationship issues, loss and self-esteem. I also support clients with family dynamics and communication difficulties. I specialise in ADHD informed and affirming counselling and coaching. My work is specifically centred on adult clients, and I do not work with children or young people.
My work integrates what I observe in the room with the client’s history, culture, relationships, and lived experience; I hold the space rather than rushing to provide answers. Therapy is a process of human co-regulation, which includes attunement and trust. As your therapist, I respond not only to your words, but to tone, pauses, body language, and emotional shifts.
I am a Registered Member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society MNCPS Accr. (NCS14-00714) which means I work within a clear ethical framework and am committed to ongoing professional development. I hold an enhanced DBS and I am ICO registered. My qualifications include Adv.Dip.Psych. Counselling and Adv.Dip. Couple Therapy NCPS Accr. I also provide Clinical Supervision. I welcome Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity in all my services.

I can support you with issues around
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Relationship issues
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Loss and Grief
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Trauma
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Self Esteem
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Attachment issues
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Anger
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Childhood Adversities
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Pre-Marriage Counselling
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Discernment Counselling
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Parental emotional challenges
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ADHD Affirming
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Narcissistic Abuse
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Family estrangement
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Co Parenting
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Single Parenting
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Communication
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Conflict and Affairs

What can you expect when working with me?
Choosing a counsellor that fits you is an important step towards your well-being.
With over ten years of experience, I tailor therapy to the individual, offering a space that feels safe, supportive and attuned. My practice is Integrative, drawing on various approaches to tailor to your unique needs, whether you are seeking Individual counselling, Relationship counselling, or ADHD informed counselling and Coaching. I recognise and support your autonomy, working at your pace.
I believe in human connection as a foundation to support learning and growth. In the safety of the counselling room, together we can have honest conversations about difficult subjects. My lived experience offers a deeper understanding.
Based in Cornwall, I also offer the convenience of Online Counselling; you can access expert support from anywhere in the UK. This flexibility allows for continuity and comfort. By choosing me, you are opting for an honest and collaborative space. I provide thoughtful, tailored support to your unique needs. I am committed to empowering you towards profound self-awareness and lasting, positive change.
I integrate different types of therapy to fit exactly what you need, whether you are coming to see me as an individual, a couple, or looking for someone who understands the ADHD experience from the inside out.
How it works
Session fees
I offer a FREE consultation over the phone for new clients to see how we would work together.
If you have any questions please get in touch.
Concession Fees
Concessionary fees are available on a personal basis.
If you have any questions, please get in touch.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Reaching out can feel big, but it’s the start of your journey. I offer an introductory call to assess whether you need support for yourself, or your relationship.
Contact Lighthouse Counselling today to book your consultation.








